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HOW TO RECOGNISE SIGNS OF HEARING LOSS IN LOVED ONES

Does your husband often miss what you are saying? Does your wife insist on turning the TV up too loud?
Published 8/22/2024,
Updated 10/7/2026
3 min read
Reviewed by Bloom Hearing Specialists New Zealand
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Does a friend always ask you to repeat yourself? It could be a sign of a hearing loss.

Hearing loss develops slowly for many people. But what starts as a simple nuisance can quickly add up to something that can affect a person’s family, work, and social life.

Common signs of hearing loss in loved ones

Recognising difficulties when hearing

Hearing changes don’t usually happen overnight. Instead, they tend to appear gradually, often first catching the attention of partners, children, friends or coworkers who notice changes in everyday conversations.

If you find you’re being asked to repeat yourself often or notice that the TV volume is being turned up much louder than it used to be, you might be wondering whether a loved one’s hearing isn’t as sharp as it used to be.

Leaving changes in hearing unaddressed can have long-term impacts, so it’s empowering to get early support. In fact, research shows that hearing aids improve social, emotional and physical wellbeing in people with hearing loss, enhancing overall quality of life. That’s why it’s important to recognise the common signs of hearing loss.

Hearing loss symptoms

What are the common signs of hearing loss?

Difficulty understanding others, frequently asking for information to be repeated and turning up the volume on devices are some of the most common signs of hearing loss. Unlike a strapped wrist or bandaged wound, signs of hearing loss are less obvious. If you’re concerned that someone you care about may have hearing challenges, take note of these signs to offer support.
  • 1.

    Difficulty understanding others due to listening fatigue

    Listening fatigue happens when people with hearing loss use extra mental energy to follow conversations, especially in noisy settings. This constant effort can leave them feeling tired, stressed or withdrawn.
  • 2.

    Frequently asking for information to be repeated

    “Could you say that again, please?” Are you often being asked to repeat yourself? The need to have information repeated could be a clue that someone’s hearing has changed. Supporting your loved one through these changes can make conversations easier and more enjoyable for both of you.
  • 3.

    Turning up the volume on devices

    Is your partner’s favourite TV show so loud you feel compelled to turn it down? They may be turning up the volume because hearing difficulties make it harder to catch important dialogue. Encouraging a hearing check can help everyone enjoy shared moments again.
  • 4.

    Difficulty hearing on the phone

    You may find phone calls with your loved one are becoming more challenging. Without visual cues like lip reading or facial expressions, it’s harder for them to follow the conversation, especially with lower sound quality. Background noise can make it even more difficult to hear and understand. Offering patience and support during calls can help your loved one feel more included.
  • 5.

    Trouble hearing across the home

    Your loved one may no longer hear you if you call out to them from another room. Suggest moving closer or speaking clearly to help bridge these gaps and maintain connection.
  • 6.

    Difficulty following group conversations

    Background noise can make it harder for anyone to follow a conversation, but when a friend or loved one has trouble keeping up with conversations in a group, it’s a great time to encourage a hearing health check. Group settings can become more enjoyable with the right support and solutions.
  • 7.

    Withdrawal from social situations and conversations

    Missing out on what’s being said and feeling challenged in everyday situations can sometimes result in people with hearing difficulties feeling frustrated, embarrassed, fatigued or withdrawn.

    “Sometimes, your loved one may choose not to attend social gatherings in places with background noise, such as restaurants or parties,” explains hearing care practitioner, K. Durrheim.

Does my parent need a hearing test?

Signs your parent needs hearing aids

About one-third of older adults have hearing loss, and the chance of developing hearing loss increases with age, according to the National Institute on Aging. 
 
As we age, there are several changes that occur to our hearing, from the inner ear, middle ear and along the nerve pathways to the brain. 

Long-term noise exposure, tinnitus, ear wax build-up and other health conditions can also play a role in changes to your parent’s hearing health. 

Hearing fatigue can show up in many ways. The sooner you can help your parent take action, the sooner you’re empowering them to reconnect with the sounds of life. Encourage your parent to embrace their hearing health journey and enjoy every moment with confidence. 

How to support a loved one experiencing hearing loss

Providing support to someone with hearing loss

If you notice any of these signs, encourage your loved one to visit an expert audiologist at their local Bloom Hearing Specialists, who can provide a full hearing evaluation.

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